Too quiet and boring dating
Vanessa Van Edwards is a published author and behavioral investigator.She is a Huffington Post columnist and her courses and research has been featured on CNN, Forbes, Business Week and the Wall Street Journal.These are the ones that reply to every inquiry with some variant of 'I dunno, sort of, I guess.'" 6. "Someone who says Hitler was a noble soul and believes it vehemently is not a boring person," says Shrindhi Sondur. And you have to care about those stories." It's a lot like Kurt Vonnegut's advice on writing: "Find a subject you care about and which you in your heart feel others should care about," the "Slaughterhouse Five" author once advised.
However, be warned that some of the methods of dealing with a quiet guy can also backfire on you.
The next time that happens try actually initiating an intriguing conversation, possibly even one that is on a topic you know he likes.
Many times people are quiet because they are not good at being the ones to start the conversation.
By knowing both sides of the argument, says legendary investor Charlie Munger. Boring people can't see things from other people's perspectives.
"Boring people are usually those who can't (or won't) understand how the conversation is experienced from the other person's perspective," says opinions.