You appear to want decisive guys who can take charge and be assertive. Earlier on Huff/Post50: After what may be decades of commitment and teamwork in a marriage, couples often reach a point when they stop viewing sex as a necessity in a relationship now built upon the strong tenets of trust, friendship and love.But when that crosses the line into controlling behavior, it is always a bad thing. A lack of sex in a marriage, however, can turn couples into buddies or quasi-roommates and make that special spark even harder to ignite.But, as a single woman trying everything I can to increase my chances of finding The One, I was interested to see how much of an issue size is for single men.So, to find out if men like fat women, I created two identical online dating profiles of me size 18 and size 10 to find out.Though many of them had positive observations, a lot of what they had to say dealt with their male companions being self-centered, boring, arrogant, duplicitous, needy and/or unwilling to commit (sometimes, impossible as it sounds, at the same time). Just know that you look great to many of us older guys with it or without it. You Probably Want to "Have It All" and Are Not Willing to "Settle". (I did.) After decades of living, we all have a lot to convey, but it makes for a better date if listening is a mutual activity. You don't want to waste your time, I understand that. Money is probably not a great date topic even if it's really, really important to you! But it also isn't 1870, and if there is mutual attraction, at this stage of our lives, waiting a long time -- whatever that may be -- seems equally foolish.
I love to read, listen to music, walks along the beach especially to see the sunset, movies and above all I love to cuddle.I should point out that I’m an 18 at this point and happy to use the word fat because I find ‘plus size’ patronising and I mentally think of it as phat instead. I set up these profiles on free online dating site OKCupid.As you can see, both are identical except for the photos and the fact one has ‘overweight’ as body type and the other has ‘thin’.Rob, a 54-year-old commodity broker from Manhattan, meets women on Seeking Arrangement, a dating website that pairs young women with men who are willing to pay for a woman's company -- and hopefully more.We followed Rob on one of his dates at American Cut Midtown, a posh steakhouse in New York City to find out what it's like when a sugar daddy wines and dines a potential sugar baby.